Thursday, April 30, 2009

What Men Really Want But Won't Tell You Episode 5


He lets himself go when you do...
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He’ll probably never tell you, but your guy doesn’t adore you regardless of how you look, especially when it comes to weight gain (except pregnancy) or letting your appearance slip. If you stop hitting the gym, trade those short skirts that won his heart for frumpy sweats, or no longer bother to style your hair, he’ll still love you, but odds are he’ll long for the old you. He might even wonder if you’ve stopped caring about him if you stop caring about how you look when he’s with you. Ask if he thinks you look fat, he’ll lie to avoid hurting you, though he may let you know in more subtle ways. Remember, the way you looked when he fell in love with you is the way he wants you to stay forever.
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Lesson learned: Never take for granted the importance of physical attraction in your relationship. Look good for your guy, and you’ll feel better about yourself. And more self-confidence means you’ll have a happier and sexier relationship. He’ll probably work harder to keep himself fit and attractive for you, too.

Monday, April 20, 2009

What Men Really Want But Won't Tell You Episode 4


So here we are at Episode 4, we’ve had some great discussions so far and I hope to keep it going…I was thinking about this week’s topic and it came to me during a discussion with my wife, so thank her for the topic…
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Natural .vs. Fake
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All the women out there this topic applies to know exactly who they are so proceed with caution and I hope no one is offended.
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Your weave,your fake nails, your gallonsof perfume choking your man to death, your horrible fake longeyelashes that will stick him in the eyes when he’s trying to kiss you; wipe off all that red lipstick, powder and paint, it stains your clothes and your man.
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I’ll tell you what we want, it’s very simple. We want a clean (inside and out), natural, well put together woman thatkeepsher mind andbody in shape. Get manicures—-not maniclaws, pedicures, and maintain your teeth and breath, yes that’s right go to the dentist more than once every 3 years.
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When it comes to weave, don’t do it. Although there are exceptions to this rule, I have seen some very expensive weave or extensions that look really good, but ladies the cheap stuff you buy from the Korean lady and have your friend down the street put it in for you? STOP IT!!! It looks horrible. If your hair is long don’t cut it then complain you dont like it and put weave in it. If your hair is short let it grow or get a nice hairstyle. nothing for me is a bigger turn-off than weave.
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When it comes to perfume, trust me less is always more, and the same could be said for some men. We want you to smell good not smell like you just took a shower in the stuff.
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Now the makeup thing, c’mon ladies do you really have to use the entire bottle of foundation at one time? I mean, how big is your face? Don’toverdo it on the blush either… some women put so much blush on it looks like they have a sunburn!!! Wear lipstick that goes with your skin tone so to look as natural as possible, my dark sistas please stop it with the candy apple red colors.
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The most important things…dress well, wear clothes and shoes that fit; trust me you don’t have to show skin to get a guy’s attention. Guys are turned on by the woman that leaves nothing to the imagination for only one reason, you want him to be interested in you for ther right reasons. Am i right ladies?
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Speak proper english, be relatively intelligent, be well read, and interesting. Yeah that’s right, you need to check the slang and bad grammar at the door. Men want someone they can have a real discussion with, pick up a newspaper once in a while, or a book and I don’t mean that love smut crap they peddle in grocery store aisles.
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and for Pete’ssake have a job, if you don’t have a job at least have a plan, that sugar daddy stuff won’t last forever—-

What Men Really Want But Won't Tell You Episode 3


Okay, so this one might just raise your hackles a little bit!
What you probably crave is a man who will love you for what’s on the inside, not how you look. And most men really do, anyway.But…. you wanted to know what men really want… so here it is. What a man really, secretly craves is to walk into a party with a hot trophy on his arm! Nothing strokes a man’s ego or wins him more points in the eyes of other men like having an attractive woman at his side. Now you can skip right past this one, or use it to your advantage.
There are few things that show a man you care more than helping him present an attractive face to the world. Keep up a stylish appearance.

What Men Really Want But Won't Tell You Episode 2


Men don’t want to have to play games or guess what a woman wants, so were drawn to honesty, sincerity and the ability to communicate clearly.

If you’re straightforward about how you feel and what you want, he can react to you rather than waste time trying to gauge what’s really going on.

Men aren’t exactly pros when it comes to reading your minds, and you know it. Being upfront about how you feel can make it a little easier on everyone.
LISTEN UP WOMEN!!!! STOP PLAYING GAMES!!!! GROW UP!!!!

What Men Really Want But Won't Tell You Episode 1


Men want someone who is supportive. Many women are quick to criticize men in their behavior, career and set about trying to alter them and mould them. BIG MISTAKE WOMEN…Allow your man to be his own man!!!!!